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From Betrayed to Bitch

There is a psychological term called “perspecticide” It’s defined as “the abuse-related incapacity to know what you know.” If you grew up in a home filled with shame and abuse, criticism and judgment, your perspective is going to be something you have to work hard to shape and find. Most of my healing work has… Continue reading From Betrayed to Bitch

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The Power of “Totally Fucked”

Power, by Adrienne Rich Living in the earth-deposits of our history Today a backhoe divulged out of a crumbling flank of earth one bottle amber perfect a hundred-year-old cure for fever or melancholy a tonic for living on this earth in the winters of this climate Today I was reading about Marie Curie: she must… Continue reading The Power of “Totally Fucked”

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Anatomy of a Fucktard

What makes a fucktard a fucktard? And later, I will tell you the MOST important question of all. But let’s look at a fucktard…we need to be clear on what we are dealing with. A fucktard has no regard for you, your emotions, your preferences, your desires, your ideas, your interests, your accomplishments, or anything… Continue reading Anatomy of a Fucktard

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Life After A Fucktard

I’m inspired by my colleague’s description of breaking up on fuck it mountain.  Having spent quite a bit of time on that mountain, I’m somewhere in between the last 2 stages.  Being familiar with other models demonstrating stages of grief, this is my favorite.  Fuck It Mountain offers a metaphor for the healing process and frankly I think it is… Continue reading Life After A Fucktard

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Breaking Up on Fuck It Mountain

Fucktards. We all know them, have encountered them, have worked with them. Call them assholes, dickless, lame…they are all fucktards at heart. Meaning, their emotional intelligence and care about others is severely retarded and irreversibly impaired, leaving others seriously fucked in dealing with their messes. Fucktards. They are basically big toddlers with their thumbs in… Continue reading Breaking Up on Fuck It Mountain