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Psycholobites: Avocado Chocolate Mousse

Let’s talk about depression for a minute here. I know, it’s difficult to imagine being depressed when something this delicious-looking is right in front of you, but it is. For a long time, I ate super-dark chocolate for breakfast. Then in poking around the internet about dysthymia, I came across something that said that those… Continue reading Psycholobites: Avocado Chocolate Mousse

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From Betrayed to Bitch

There is a psychological term called “perspecticide” It’s defined as “the abuse-related incapacity to know what you know.” If you grew up in a home filled with shame and abuse, criticism and judgment, your perspective is going to be something you have to work hard to shape and find. Most of my healing work has… Continue reading From Betrayed to Bitch

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Life After A Fucktard

I’m inspired by my colleague’s description of breaking up on fuck it mountain.  Having spent quite a bit of time on that mountain, I’m somewhere in between the last 2 stages.  Being familiar with other models demonstrating stages of grief, this is my favorite.  Fuck It Mountain offers a metaphor for the healing process and frankly I think it is… Continue reading Life After A Fucktard