assholes · bitch · empowerment · fucktard repetition · fucktards · Onward and upward · Re-enactment · redefinition · Repetition compulsion

Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

Here we go being born again and again and again. Isn’t that inner work…the art of transformation? I was dating this guy and broke up with him once. He checked out after we had sex. Checked out as in, not a text, a loooonnnnnggg ass time before our next date, and absolute withdrawal. He apologized… Continue reading Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

bitch · Onward and upward · Psycholobites

Psycholobites: Avocado Chocolate Mousse

Let’s talk about depression for a minute here. I know, it’s difficult to imagine being depressed when something this delicious-looking is right in front of you, but it is. For a long time, I ate super-dark chocolate for breakfast. Then in poking around the internet about dysthymia, I came across something that said that those… Continue reading Psycholobites: Avocado Chocolate Mousse

assholes · bitch · empowerment · fucktards · Onward and upward · redefinition

From Betrayed to Bitch

There is a psychological term called “perspecticide” It’s defined as “the abuse-related incapacity to know what you know.” If you grew up in a home filled with shame and abuse, criticism and judgment, your perspective is going to be something you have to work hard to shape and find. Most of my healing work has… Continue reading From Betrayed to Bitch