Once I was ignored, no, always I was ignored. I memory collected rock faces, cold shoulders, steel walls. It broke me. What I learned was to listen well to what was not being said. What I opened my heart to was feeling words, giving them weight, letting them settle into earthen ears and be real.… Continue reading Imprisonment
There is a psychological term called “perspecticide” It’s defined as “the abuse-related incapacity to know what you know.” If you grew up in a home filled with shame and abuse, criticism and judgment, your perspective is going to be something you have to work hard to shape and find. Most of my healing work has… Continue reading From Betrayed to Bitch
Summer is slipping away and I imagine myself in my sunglasses, with a cocktail in hand, sitting in a beach chair on some piece of sidewalk, and throwing my head back in laughter. Raucous laughter, tinkling-bells laughter, the kind that makes your sides hurt. Even as I laugh, my bank account is being drained by… Continue reading Fucktards on Parade
Power, by Adrienne Rich Living in the earth-deposits of our history Today a backhoe divulged out of a crumbling flank of earth one bottle amber perfect a hundred-year-old cure for fever or melancholy a tonic for living on this earth in the winters of this climate Today I was reading about Marie Curie: she must… Continue reading The Power of “Totally Fucked”
What makes a fucktard a fucktard? And later, I will tell you the MOST important question of all. But let’s look at a fucktard…we need to be clear on what we are dealing with. A fucktard has no regard for you, your emotions, your preferences, your desires, your ideas, your interests, your accomplishments, or anything… Continue reading Anatomy of a Fucktard
What the hell is a “Psycholobitch”?, you might ask. Our mission is about becoming strong and not letting our experiences define us as victims. We have been through some major shit in our lives, shit that left us breathless, totally fucked, and saying, “what the hell???” through our tears and pain. It is a play… Continue reading Huh? Why Psycholobitch?