assholes · bitch · empowerment · fucktards · Onward and upward · Re-enactment · redefinition · Repetition compulsion

Dealing With the Fuckery of Bullies

Every morning, I’d get off the bus with a sense of dread in my 12-year-old heart. I’d zone out as I lifted my feet to navigate two floors of marble stairs. Once I visited my locker and shuffled to my homeroom, I’d sag into my chair, waiting. And Brad Drew would come. He’d kick me… Continue reading Dealing With the Fuckery of Bullies

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Haves and Have Nots

Brene Brown spoke this of shame in her TED talk, “Listening to Shame:” “If we’re going to find our way back to each other, we have to understand and know empathy, because empathy’s the antidote to shame. If you put shame in a Petri dish, it needs three things to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence and judgment.” Secrecy, silence, and judgment-these… Continue reading Haves and Have Nots

assholes · bitch · empowerment · fucktard repetition · fucktards · Onward and upward · Re-enactment · redefinition · Repetition compulsion

Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

Here we go being born again and again and again. Isn’t that inner work…the art of transformation? I was dating this guy and broke up with him once. He checked out after we had sex. Checked out as in, not a text, a loooonnnnnggg ass time before our next date, and absolute withdrawal. He apologized… Continue reading Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

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In Which Projection-Zilla Leaves Fucktardia

Who knows what was in the tiny, nearly imperceptible heart of Projection-Zilla the day she left Fucktardia. Surely it was some primal, ancient urge that caused her to actually feel some of the pain she’d caused her scapegoat. This pain was unacceptable to her as she stood primping in the mirror, and later arrived late,… Continue reading In Which Projection-Zilla Leaves Fucktardia