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Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

Here we go being born again and again and again. Isn’t that inner work…the art of transformation? I was dating this guy and broke up with him once. He checked out after we had sex. Checked out as in, not a text, a loooonnnnnggg ass time before our next date, and absolute withdrawal. He apologized… Continue reading Merry Bitchmas, Happy New Bitch

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From Betrayed to Bitch

There is a psychological term called “perspecticide” It’s defined as “the abuse-related incapacity to know what you know.” If you grew up in a home filled with shame and abuse, criticism and judgment, your perspective is going to be something you have to work hard to shape and find. Most of my healing work has… Continue reading From Betrayed to Bitch

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Life After A Fucktard

I’m inspired by my colleague’s description of breaking up on fuck it mountain.  Having spent quite a bit of time on that mountain, I’m somewhere in between the last 2 stages.  Being familiar with other models demonstrating stages of grief, this is my favorite.  Fuck It Mountain offers a metaphor for the healing process and frankly I think it is… Continue reading Life After A Fucktard